Many women become involved or even obsessed with the wrong partners – ones who treat them badly. So why? This article will give you the answer
1. She thinks that everything is her fault in the relationship.
A woman may think that everything that goes wrong in the relationship is her fault so it’s okay for her that he treats her so badly.
She thinks that all the bad things in the romance are due to her actions, choices, and decisions.
2. She believes that she is deserving of terrible treatment.
Sometimes, she can be so guilty about something that she has done in the past that she feels like she is deserving of terrible treatment by other men. Sometimes, she can feel like she isn’t doing enough in a relationship and that’s why her man has every right to be treating her badly. However, that kind of mindset can be very unhealthy. No one ever deserves to be treated terribly in any kind of romantic relationship.
3. She thinks she won’t be able to find someone better.
She KNOWS that she is being treated badly.
She is aware that she doesn’t deserve to be treated so terribly by someone she loves. But she won’t want to leave him due to the fact that she’s not too sure if she’s going to find anyone better than him. She’s scared that if she gets into a relationship with another guy, he’s not going to treat her as well as the one she’s with now. As a result, she tries to endure his terrible treatment.
4. She believes that her love can still change him.
She always remains hopeful and she genuinely believes in the power of love. She really thinks that love has the power to change people. She knows that her man is rough and terrible. She knows that her man really needs some work. But she hopes that the idea of loving her man would be enough to inspire and motivate him to be a better person.
5. She lets her love blind her to the bad treatment.
She thinks that everything is okay. Why? She loves him too much to see his bad side. She loves him too much to see his terrible ways and tactics.
She loves him too much to acknowledge the fact that he’s just bad for her.
6. She mistakes being used for being loved.
She is the kind of girl who always likes to be caring for those who are closest to her heart. She is a natural nurturer.
She is always thinking of taking care of the people she loves. And she thinks that when people are accepting of her love, she is being loved in return. However, that isn’t always true. A lot of times, she’s just going to be used for what she can offer. And she isn’t really being loved in return.
7. She doesn’t KNOW that she’s being treated badly because of worse experiences in the past.
She has been used and ab_used so many times in so many worse ways in the past so that’s why when she’s in a better relationship; a relationship where she isn’t as maltreated as before, she thinks it’s a good thing. But in fact she’s still in a terrible relationship. She’s still in an abusive and toxic relationship environment. She just thinks that it’s okay because it’s a lot better than what she has been used to.
8. She is desperate for love even if it hurts her.
She just wants to be in a loving relationship although it’s really hurting her on the inside.
However, what she has no idea is that true love – the kind that lasts – doesn’t really hurt. But she can’t tell the difference. Her desperation has practically blinded her. Her desperation for love has deluded her into thinking that everything is tolerable and okay.
9. She is too afraid of being alone.
Perhaps she just relies on him to get the financial stability that she gives him. Or maybe she just feels like she would never be able to make it alone in the world. Even if being in a toxic relationship, it makes her more uncomfortable to be single.